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Life skills · 42 quests · 34 off-screen

Life skills activities kids can actually finish

Independence is built from small, finishable jobs. The life-skills quests are tiny on purpose: tidy one specific thing, make your own snack and clean up afterwards, help with one chore of your choice. Doing one thing well beats being told to “clean your room” and giving up at the door.

Choice matters here too. Letting a child choose which chore to help with turns an order into a decision, and decisions are what kids feel ownership of. For teens, the tasks lean toward planning — look up a recipe and write the shopping list — which is the bridge to cooking for themselves.

For younger kids (about 6–11)

Shorter, more playful, more hands-on. 8 quests.

Sock-matching race: pair every sock in the laundry pile before the timer

Laundry turned into a speed game

Off-screenAges 6–11EasyTimed
+5

Set the table for the whole family — forks left, spoons right, one surprise decoration

The dinner starts with you

Off-screenAges 6–11EasyTick off when done
+5

Pack your own bag for tomorrow from a checklist you write

Morning-you will say thanks

Off-screenAges 6–11EasyTick off when done
+10

Wash the vegetables and measure the rice for dinner with a parent

Real cooking, kid-sized

Off-screenAges 6–11EasyTick off when done
+10

Plant care day: water every plant at home and check which ones look thirsty

Plants can't ask for help

Off-screenAges 6–11EasyTick off when done
+5

Sort the recycling with a parent: paper, plastic, glass — no mistakes

Help the planet, one bin at a time

Off-screenAges 6–11EasyTick off when done
+10
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Learn the family's emergency numbers and the home address by heart

The most important thing to memorize

Off-screenAges 6–11EasyTick off when done
+10

Make your bed hotel-style — a parent inspects it like a hotel manager

Five-star room service

Off-screenAges 6–11EasyTick off when done
+5

For teens (12–16)

Longer, more open, more grown-up. 5 quests.

Cook a whole dinner for the family with an adult in the kitchen: plan, shopping list, cook, serve

A real meal, start to finish

Off-screenAges 12–16HardTick off when done
+30

Phone-free hour: put the phone in another room and do one thing you've been putting off

Prove you control it, not the other way

Off-screenAges 12–16MediumTimed
+15

Weekly meal plan for the family with a shopping list and a $60 limit

Run the kitchen for a week

OnlineAges 12–16HardShort written answer
+25

Change a bike chain or fix a flat with a parent — learn it once, own it forever

Never stuck on the side of the road

Off-screenAges 12–16MediumTick off when done
+20

Be the host: plan and run a family game night — menu, games and schedule

You run the night

Off-screenAges 12–16MediumTick off when done
+20

Great at any age

Scale the difficulty up or down to suit your child. 29 quests.

Tidy one specific thing (your desk)

Tiny, doable

Off-screenAll agesEasyTick off when done
+10

Make your own snack and clean up after

Independence

Off-screenAll agesEasyTick off when done
+10

Look up a recipe, list what you'd need to buy

Planning skill

OnlineAll agesEasyShort written answer
+10

Help with one chore of your choice

Choice = buy-in

Off-screenAll agesEasyTick off when done
+10

Delete 10 photos you don't need / tidy your phone home screen

Digital tidy

Off-screenAll agesEasyTick off when done
+5

Make a sandwich for someone else exactly the way they like it

Ask first, then make it perfect

Off-screenAll agesEasyTick off when done
+10
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Fold your own laundry and put it away

A tiny win you can see

Off-screenAll agesEasyTick off when done
+10

Grocery list hero: check the fridge with a parent and write what the family needs

The grocery run depends on your list

Off-screenAll agesEasyTick off when done
+10

Cook a simple breakfast for the family with an adult nearby (eggs, toast or pancakes)

Breakfast by you, for everyone

Off-screenAll agesMediumTick off when done
+20

Sew a button back on (or practice on a scrap) with a parent showing you

Fix it, don't throw it

Off-screenAll agesMediumTick off when done
+15

Fix something small: a wobbly chair, a loose handle, a squeaky door — with a parent

You're the house repair crew

Off-screenAll agesMediumTick off when done
+20

Pump up a bike tire and check the brakes with a parent

Your bike, your responsibility

Off-screenAll agesMediumTick off when done
+15

Plan your week: homework, sport, friends and free time on one page

Be the boss of your own week

Off-screenAll agesMediumTick off when done
+15

Budget a birthday party for 6 friends with $50 — food, games, decorations

Party planner with a real limit

OnlineAll agesMediumShort written answer
+20

Allowance plan: split this month's money into spend, save and share

Your money, your rules

OnlineAll agesMediumShort written answer
+15

Run one load of laundry start to finish with a parent showing you the buttons

A grown-up skill unlocked

Off-screenAll agesMediumTick off when done
+15

Make a first-aid kit check with a parent: what's there, what's missing?

Be ready before you need it

Off-screenAll agesEasyTick off when done
+10

Clean one shelf, drawer or box properly — keep, give away, toss

Lighter room, lighter head

Off-screenAll agesEasyTick off when done
+10

Kitchen rescue: wash the dishes after dinner while a parent dries — you choose the music

Chores go faster with a playlist

Off-screenAll agesEasyTick off when done
+10

Read a bus or train schedule and plan a trip to town with a parent

First step to getting around on your own

OnlineAll agesMediumShort written answer
+15

Compare prices: find the cheapest per pound of 3 brands of one food on a shopping trip

Shop smarter than the shelf

Off-screenAll agesMediumShort written answer
+15

Pack the car for a day trip with a checklist — nothing forgotten

Trip manager

Off-screenAll agesMediumTick off when done
+15

Ask a grandparent to teach you one thing they know how to do

Skills that only family can pass on

Off-screenAll agesEasyTick off when done
+15

Make a cold lunch box for tomorrow: one fruit, one veggie, one main, one treat

Your lunch, your choice

Off-screenAll agesEasyTick off when done
+10

Negotiate a new family rule: write your offer, hear a parent's side, agree on one

A deal that's actually fair

Off-screenAll agesMediumTick off when done
+20

Morning challenge: get ready for school with zero reminders, then tick it off

Run your own morning

Off-screenAll agesEasyTick off when done
+10

Money quiz: 5 everyday situations — spend, save or skip?

Smart choices, no lectures

OnlineAll agesEasyAuto-checked quiz
+10

Write the recipe of a family dish step by step, so anyone could cook it

Save the family recipe

OnlineAll agesMediumShort written answer
+15

Plan tomorrow in the app: 3 must-dos, 1 fun thing, 1 thing for someone else

A plan that fits on a sticky note

OnlineAll agesEasyShort written answer
+10
At home

How to run life skills quests at home

You don't need the app to use these. A few habits make them work much better.

  • Be specific about “done”. A clear desk is done; a desk with a pile moved to the bed is not.
  • Resist redoing it. If the snack is a bit messy or the desk not quite how you'd do it, let it stand.
  • Notice it out loud. Kids repeat jobs that someone noticed.
  • Follow through on the shopping-list quest by actually buying the ingredients and letting them cook.

How Tandomo uses these

The quests above are templates, not a fixed list. Each morning the app writes a new set for each child, adapting ideas like these to their age, their interests and anything you've asked it to focus on — so a pizza-sharing problem might become a pizza-sharing problem about their soccer team. Life skills usually appears as one or two quests in a mixed set of 7–10, alongside other subjects and plenty of off-screen time. Your feedback on the parent dashboard steers what comes next (more in the FAQ).

Life skills activities: common questions

Isn't this just chores with points?

Partly, and that's fine — but the tasks are small, chosen by the child where possible and framed as independence rather than obligation. Points reward showing up, not perfection.

How are these tasks checked?

Most are ticked off by the child. If you want to confirm, the parent dashboard shows what was marked done and any note your child left.

Are cooking tasks safe for younger kids?

The starter quests are simple snacks and planning. Decide for yourself what your child can do alone in the kitchen and when they need an adult.

Life skills quests, built around your kid

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